Hello, dear friends; here’s what we’ve been up to for the
past twelve months.
The year began in the Bahamas, where we have been wintering
since my retirement from the Naval Academy. Our location there is Dickey’s Cay, a tiny island
(population 1-2 dozen souls, depending on the season) that forms the harbor of
Man-O-War Cay, a larger island (population 250-350). Man-O-War (hereinafter “MOW”) has a small settlement with
one restaurant, a marina, two boatyards, two groceries, a hardware store (where
one can buy lobster), and a nice assortment of expert carpenters, boat builders
and mechanics, good people to have close at hand when things break.
Dickey’s Cay and MOW lie in a barrier
reef, one of the longest in the world, that protects the larger islands of
Great Abaco and Little Abaco and encloses the Sea of Abaco (that’s the water
between the reef and the big islands), about 4 miles wide, and forms a great
sailing area that’s protected from the open Atlantic that lies outside the
reef. On Dickey’s Cay we inhabit a
small family compound that we share with the wonderful British couple who own the property. Generally when
they’re in residence, we’re not, and vice versa; they use Troubadour, our boat, when
we’re away, a boat and house swap that has worked well for
us. The property has its own dock
on the MOW harbor, and Troubadour lives there or on a mooring in the southern
harbor when the wind blows hard.
There are three dwellings, a main house on the harbor, a guest house on
stilts that hangs literally over the Sea of Abaco, and a smaller bunk house
that’s good for grandchildren.

In
addition to Troubadour, our 37’ sailboat, there are 4 small craft that we use
to get to MOW for groceries, or just to fool around on the water. These include a 12’ Boston Whaler
that’s our family "car," plus a rowboat, a kayak, and Troubadour’s
dinghy.
We hosted Christmas in the
islands with daughters Laura and Sarah and their husbands and children, the next door
neighbor loaned us one of her guest houses to accommodate the overflow, and
Marcia and I stayed on Troubadour, giving the houses over to family. We visited Marsh Harbor, the capital of
the Abacos (1 traffic light), Hopetown on Elbow Cay and Nippers at Guana Cay. Ate, drank, swam, snorkeled, fished, sailed,
hiked, all the usual good stuff, including an amazing all-day tour of the Blue Holes of Abaco with Underground Bahamas which included visiting a bat cave and the nesting grounds of the Abaco parrots,
and swimming in several blue holes.
After
the family had departed, I took a short break to travel to Florida and conduct
the Florida All-State Men’s Chorus.
That was fun and exhausting with 9 hour rehearsal days. We remained in Florida for a week,
again visiting old friends, then returned to the Bahamas for a three week
cruise on Troubadour. This idyllic
time was interrupted by the death of Marcia’s brother in law. Marcia flew back to Rhode Island for
the funeral, leaving me on Troubadour at Green Turtle Cay, where we had been
docked for a short spell while our landlords at Tradewinds were in residence. Upon the departure of the owners, we
returned to Tradewinds, hosted a succession of guests, and we remained in the
islands until the end of March.
Upon return to our home grounds, Marcia plunged into the
writing business while I ran the usual spring music festival in Annapolis and
put together an evening of Gilbert and Sullivan as a fund raiser for Laura and
David’s choir at St Alban’s Church on the grounds of the National Cathedral. We commissioned Iolanthe for spring
sailing on the Bay, and took a series of short Bay cruises, including one
longer cruise to visit Sarah and her family in Chesapeake, VA, where Jon,
Sarah’s husband, is a doctor stationed at Portsmouth Naval Hospital.

Marcia and her three living sisters thought that they were
getting together too often only when someone dear died, and so the four of them
took a sisterly-bonding cruise from Baltimore to Bermuda and back. I sailed out in Iolanthe to wave them goodby as the ship
passed under the Chesapeake Bay Bridge headed for the ocean. Marcia claims this cruise was for purposes of research for her next novel and, as such, is tax deductible. Look for Dark Passage -- Marcia's 12th Hannah Ives mystery -- in the summer of 2013. Her 11th, The Last Refuge, was published in hardback and tradepaper in May and is now available -- as are all her earlier titles -- as an ebook.
I have become
involved with Annapolis Opera, a professional company that puts on outstanding
productions, directed by a friend and Peabody classmate from long ago and that
activity eats up more time and effort than I had anticipated, but that’s often
the way volunteer work develops. I
continue to fill in as a substitute organist at a couple of local churches, and
that makes me keep up some minimum level of organ technique. A good thing.
During the summer months, we hosted Camp Grandma, and spent
several weeks with various combinations of grandchildren. Thomas and Joseph, Sarah’s children,
were in town to take sailing lessons at the Eastport YC and Annapolis Sailing
School; Laura’s children, Jon and Abigail, stayed with us while their parents
were in England for a choir tour accompanied by their oldest son Benjamin, who had recently graduated from high school.

Other highlights included attending the beautiful, Connecticut wedding of Marcia's niece, Ava -- and the bat mitzvah of grandniece, Elizabeth, in Rhode Island.

In August, Marcia made her annual trip to England to speak on "Humor in Crime Fiction: or, What's So Funny About Murder" at the annual St Hilda’s Crime and Mystery Weekend in Oxford. She attended the Edington Festival of Music Within the Liturgy in Wiltshire, and visited numerous friends. While Marcia was frolicking across the Atlantic, I was conducting,
at Chautauqua, the annual week of geezer music under the auspices of Encore
Creativity, an arts program for older adults. This year we combined dance, theater, and chorus, and the
week was covered by an embedded Washington Post reporter. Very cool! When you think you’re old enough, you should sign up and
come and sing with me.
There were some medical issues this year, and Marcia had her
thyroid removed. This event was
celebrated by a long weekend trip to Bethany Beach with the whole extended
family, less one grandchild, Benjamin, who had just departed for Earlham College. Can’t believe it.
Marcia’s thyroid turned out to be
malignant, and that was too bad, but her doctors told her that it was a very
treatable form of cancer, and that treatment involved taking radioactive iodine. Thyroid tissue craves iodine, so giving
a radioactive form of iodine is intended to kill off any remaining bits of the
gland. This treatment, while
effective, is not fun, as it requires a miserable diet for a couple of weeks,
then isolation from all forms of life, including me. I moved in with Aaron Smith, my successor at the Naval
Academy, and his wife, Amy, while Marcia was "too hot to handle," and we made good use of that time.

But before the diet and subsequent radiation, we took
another great family road trip, driving to Disney World in November for a week
with Sarah and Jon, their three children, and Jon’s father who flew in from
Dallas. Marcia and I drove, taking
our time (this is one of the real joys of retirement, the time thing) again to
visit with friends in Hilton Head on the way down and Pinehurst and Raleigh on
the way back. The Disney trip was
wonderful; because Jon is active duty Navy, Disney offers a substantial
discount, and that break made the concierge level of the Contemporary Hotel (almost!) affordable. If you have
young children, and Sarah has a couple of pre-schoolers, plus a third grader,
being on the Disney property on the monorail line is a great benefit, since
when anyone gets tired, and that includes us, you can quickly and easily
retreat to the hotel for a quick nap.
That concierge level offers complementary food and drink, including
alcohol, pretty much anytime. This
is both fun and dangerous.

Returning from Disney, Marcia, who is usually sunny and
pleasant, turned into a real grouch because of the draconian diet and radiation
and the need to meet her publisher’s deadline to turn in her novel before Christmas, which she did. The casualties,
however, included Christmas cards, and we hope to get them mailed soon,
probably as we spend the next two weeks driving to Austin, Texas for New Year’s with my
Texas family, and then to Florida, interrupting the trip with stops again to
visit old friends before departing for another winter in the Bahamas.
We continue to enjoy a very active retirement, combining
music, sailing, writing and travelling, ever thankful for a loving family that
is close at hand, and sufficient health to enjoy the opportunities that have
come our way.
We have come to enjoy, most of all, the companionship of
good friends, often in beautiful places like the Bahamas, or sailing the
Chesapeake; if you’re coming our way, and are reading this, do give us a call
so that we can spend some time together.

Hanukkah and Christmas have passed and we hope they were
joyous, but Happy New Year, (or years, if you’re following the Mayan calendar).
Barry